"Bamorohm y'lam'du alayhem v'olaynu z'chus shet'hayl'mishmeres sholohm" - (In Heaven, may they and we, bedeserving that we should have the protection of peace.)
"A dry piece of bread in peace is better than a house fullof feasting, with fighting." (Mishlay l7:l) It is better for a man to eat a plain slice of dry bread in peace, than to eat abig piece of meat in a place where there is fighting. (Ralbag)